Rex E Anderson
January 15, 1947 - December 5, 2009
Father, Grandfather, Brother and Friend
Today my dad passed into Heaven surrounded by family. We surrounded his bedside and we told him we loved him then I leaned down layed my head on his chest and I told him everything I needed to tell him and everything that everyone needed to tell him. I told him that I loved him and that I will always love him. I told him that I will take care of my family and do my best to get along with my siblings and that I will strive to be the best person that I can be.
Dad, Handsome as always at a Wedding 196?I told him that I love him and that this world was a better place because he had been a part of it.
Aunt Linda, Dad and Aunt Janet along with their dog, KingTomorrow we will meet with the funeral home to set up a memorial service. As soon as I have definite details I will post. I can tell you that it will be a Masonic Memorial Service with a meal afterward at the Homer VFW. Two things my father was proud of was his Masonic Heritage and his Military Service. He will be buried at Fort Custer Veteran's Cemetery.
Aunt Linda, Dad and Aunt Janet
Before Dad went into the Air Force
The other thing I can tell you, if you haven't already guessed, is that he love every second that he had his lung transplant. Even through the infections and rejection, he marveled at the blessing he was given when he received the Gift of Life. If you would like to honor his memory, please sign up to be a organ donor. I can't stress how much the last 6 1/2 have meant to our family. The Gift of Life Michigan gave us time with my father than is so precious and will be forever imprinted into my heart and memories.
So, tomorrow afternoon I will post all the details.
I can't thank friends and family enough for the love and support that he received, especially these last couple of days. We had no clue that his time in hospice care would be so short but he was knew everyone who came to visit him and everyone who was there talked with him and remembered fond memories. We laughed and we cried but most of all we loved.
We loved a man who has been a father, a brother, and grandfather and most of all a friend to all of us. We loved a man who has inspired us in some way or another to be a better person. We loved a man who will forever be a part of each and every one of us because of his kindness, his virtues, his laughter and his love.
Please, go to you Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Daughter, Son and tell them you love them. Time on this earth is precious. I had the opportunity to tell the man that gave me life and molded me into the person I am all of the things I wanted to say. I will forever cherish my last "slumber party" with him. Last night I barely slept as I listened to his breathing get weaker and weaker. Every time I would check on him I told him I loved him and he didn't have to fight anymore. Most importantly, I was able to tell him and he heard me.
Out of the mouth of babes: My three year old niece came into the room last night so that my dad could see all the grand kids (mine and my brothers had already been there) and that ladybug pointed at her Papa and said, "Grandpa Anderson is going to Heaven and he's going to be my Angel."
Yes, my little ladybug, your Papa is going to be one busy angel keeping a watch over all of us.